fear

fear..
an emotion that may have the ability to prevent us from achieving anything..
fear...
we all fear
fear something or the other

many fear spiders
many fear heights
many fear public speaking
and many fear rejection

all occuring...
all comprised of some form of a past experience..
all which were negative

people respond differently
we all are of different contexts..
different culutral identities
different everyday lifestyles
different economical statuses
different religious beliefs
different occupations
different genders
different values
different ages

different alot of things
yet the same in so many ways

living in same society
going to same school
going to same workplace
livin in the side of the world
all having a mother and a father
all have a body, a mind, a soul

we all people..
still have fears..
they may be different or they may be the same
but sooner or later the fear will slow you down from doing anything you want
it drags you down

fears of consequences..
fears of facing the fears...
fears of rejection..
fears of talk and gossip..

consequences can be dealt with the correct decision in the first place..
or the correct handling of the problem
consequences can be resolved..
with support of family and friends..
things can be resolved..
problems fade as time passes

facing the fears..
support is always there..
friends and family..
they will help you through..
as long as you recognise your fear
and talk to them about it..
they'll share the burden

fear of rejection..
fitting in and acceptance within a mass of people is hard..
but family members will always be there..
they love you for who you are..
they love you because they look past your imperfections..
and accept you, you are one of them
for there cannot be perfection...
we are all human..
and in that way we all make mistakes..
but family throught their love will eventually forgive

fear of talk and gossip..
this is hard..
for there will always be your support system of your family and friends..
but if you fear talk between them..
then who is it that you will confide to?
with the fear increasing trust begins to crumble...
less communication
and without the communication...
the support system will collapse...
all for without being open towards the ones you love...
the loneliness surrounds and encompasses..
the sense of loss is overwhelming
and it seems as if all is lost...

if you fear of talk and gossip..
what will you do for fear of being judged?
be who you are...
be happy as who you are..
if they talk then let them talk..

it is not an easy thing..
for all talk and no action is an easy thing..
for avoidence is also easy..
or even ignorance..
or locking it all away..
hopefully never to resurface again..
but under the mask..
under deep inside it hurts..
and if it begins to rise..
then bottled up emotions will change..
it will just burst..
a time where emotions will run free..
what isnt intended to be said..
is said..
emotions of others will hurt and soon..
the support system is gone..
but to accept the fear and take action and talking openly...
over time..

time is a precious thing...
for once past will not return..
there is little..
and it is all limited to every single person..
time not used wisely...
only allows for possibilities..
the creation of an imagenary world of "what if's?"
"if i had done this..
and not that"
"if i had done this.. if i had said that"

all regret..

regret for not doing something
for fear of consequences..
for fear of talk..
for fear of rejection..

fear of anything

and on and on it cycles..
for the only way to break free..
its to stand against the fear..
to fight the fear...
or just to take the step and change your thoughts..
to not fear the actual fear..
confidence may be the thing needed..
courage...
seize the day..

or just spiral down deeper and deeper...
down in to the depths where no one can find you...
nothing but an empty shell...

and wat of fear of talk from others?
talk 4m people within tha community?
you may not care of them
yet you may still care of their talk...
would you just stay at home in fear of their talk?
not do anythink you want just because you fear what they think?

g2g
nite nite
*hugz*